Labor Day holds a special place in my heart, not just because it is a day off, but because it offers a unique opportunity to reflect on how we celebrate work and, more importantly, life. Having lived in Italy, the UK, and now the USA, I have had the chance to experience this holiday in three very different ways. Each country brings its flavor to the day, and I am excited to share with you how we have celebrated over the years, from smoky barbecues in Italy to long walks in the English countryside, and now, poolside gatherings in the heat of Arizona.
Italy: the “Festa dei Lavoratori” and the joy of real BBQs
In Italy, Labor Day, or “La Festa dei Lavoratori,” is celebrated on May 1st. It is a day steeped in tradition. While many Italians might head to a big concert or enjoy a parade, our family always had a more intimate way of celebrating: with a barbecue.
I love barbecuing, especially with a real fire made from wood. Back in Italy, my dad built a brick structure where Pietro and I would light a fire and cook chicken, ribs, and vegetables right over the embers. It wasn’t easy managing the flames and making sure the meat didn’t burn, but we became quite the experts. We always took charge of the cooking because no one else wanted to deal with the smell of smoke that clung to you afterward. I, on the other hand, loved it!
What made the day even better was the flexibility of the holiday. Since May 1st doesn’t always fall on a weekend, if it landed on a Wednesday, it broke up the week nicely, giving us a midweek break. If it fell on a Thursday, we’d often take Friday off and enjoy a long weekend. It was a perfect excuse to relax and spend time with friends and family, enjoying good food and each other’s company.
The UK: walks in the countryside and embracing nature
When we moved to the UK, our Labor Day celebrations changed quite a bit. The UK’s version, known as the Early May Bank Holiday, is more about enjoying a day off rather than celebrating workers’ rights. For us, it became a day to get outside and explore the beautiful English countryside.
We’d often use the day to visit National Trust parks: a wonderful organization that preserves historic places and spaces for the public to enjoy. These parks are always well-maintained, and many include historic houses that are open for tours. It was our way of connecting with nature and history all in one go.
If we didn’t visit a park, we’d pick a long walk from our precious book of walks in the Cotswolds, a region known for its rolling hills and charming villages. We’d pack a simple lunch – sandwiches, fruit, and a treat; then set off in the car to our chosen destination. The walks were sometimes as long as 10 kilometers, and even with small children, we never regretted our choice. The kids would walk until they tired out, then Pietro would take turns carrying them, and we’d continue, telling stories, singing songs, or simply listening to the sounds of nature. Even a bit of drizzle wouldn’t stop us from enjoying these marvelous days. They are some of our most treasured memories from our time in England.
The USA: Labor Day in the Arizona heat
Now that we are in the USA, Labor Day looks a bit different again. Here, the holiday is celebrated on the first Monday of September and marks the unofficial end of summer, though in Arizona, summer is far from over. With temperatures still soaring above 40°C (over 100°F), spending too much time outside isn’t an option.
Instead, we usually spend the day with friends, either hosting or being hosted. Poolside gatherings are popular since the water is warm enough to feel like a jacuzzi, making it a perfect way to relax. This year, we have invited one of Marco’s friends and his parents over for the day. The mother and I meet up every Friday morning, and we have developed a lovely friendship, sharing advice on parenting and navigating life here. I am looking forward to spending the afternoon with them, chatting, eating, and laughing, even though we haven’t met the father yet. I have a good feeling that it’ll be a fun and memorable day.
What I love most about national holidays like Labor Day is the chance to spend more time with Pietro and the kids. However, this year will be a bit different; Elisa won’t be coming home, and I know I’ll miss having her around. But I am sure we’ll still make the most of the day, and I can’t wait to share with you how it goes.
The beauty of labor day in different cultures
Reflecting on these different Labor Day traditions, I am reminded of how each country has its unique way of celebrating. Whether it is a barbecue in Italy, a walk in the English countryside, or a poolside gathering in Arizona, the essence of the holiday remains the same: taking a moment to step back from the busyness of life, enjoying time with loved ones, and appreciating the simple pleasures that each day brings.
Thanks for hanging out with me today!
Se you next time!
Valentina
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